At one time, huge lines of credit
may have inspired us to be overly generous. For example, you may
have always insisted on "picking up the tab" when you dined with
a group of friends at an expensive restaurant. During holidays
and birthdays, you may have been the person that showered
everyone with costly gifts.
When it came time to manage your
debt, people that you encountered or articles that you read may
have advised you to become more "frugal." Hearing this word may
make you cringe because you may associate frugal with being
cheap. With some new insight and lifestyle changes, you may
realize that frugality can be fun, creative, and less stressful.
Frugal living encompasses many
concepts such as using things that you have on hand instead of
purchasing something new. For example, a frugal person would
cook dinner with items that they already have in their kitchen
cabinets instead of ordering take-out or buying more food at the
grocery store. Rather than hosting a child's birthday party at
Chuck E. Cheese, a frugal parent would organize an imaginative
party theme for a small group of children at their home. For
example, parents of daughters could have a princess party where
little girls make their own crowns.
Frugality may have a negative
connotation because some people relate it to deprivation or
being stingy. There are times in life when we may not be able to
be as frugal as we want to be. For example, if a child
desperately needs cough syrup at midnight, most parents would
purchase it at the local convenience store rather than wait
until the discount grocery chain opens the next morning. Being
frugal is not sacrificing basic needs in order to save money.
During the upcoming month, meet
with your family to discuss ways in which you can become more
frugal. Can you refinish or paint a piece of bedroom furniture
instead of a buying new set? Would your family be willing to
dine out one night less a week or reduce the number of premium
television services? Over time, your family may begin to
integrate many innovate ideas in order to create a frugal
lifestyle. In the end, these changes may make you more relaxed
because you will know how to live richly without spending a lot
of money.