Nowadays a lot of families have a hard time making it on two incomes
and as a stay at home mom we needed to find ways to make it on just
one. Our solution? Instead of trying to figure out ways to bring in
more money we are taking steps to hold onto the money we have by
reducing our living expenses.
Although I come from a large family
with a very frugal mom I have not always been frugal by nature. My
husband and I have had our share of credit card debt as well as
overspending on trivial things such as eating out a lot. These days
the credit card debt is almost paid off and although we do enjoy an
occasional meal out we have cut back. Day to day we try and watch
our spending while still splurging occasionally on the things our
family enjoys.
Here are just a few ways we have cut our expenses. Our solutions
may not work for everyone but they have put us on the right path to
debt free living.
When our furnace needed replacing we decided to go with a
soapstone wood stove. Not only is it beautiful but it really does a
nice job heating our home. Some people think we are crazy because we
don't have a backup source of heat but it suits us fine. We are also
lucky that we can get most of our wood for free from a family member
who lives in the country. We have been heating this way for five
years now and my husband never complains about chopping wood, In
fact it really helps him stay in shape. We are also unaffected by
the rising cost of heating bills each year.
We invested in a freezer. If you have room in your home you can
probably find a decent freezer for under $200.00. We purchased a
small chest freezer at our local Sam's Club and it is paying for
itself rather quickly. I purchase big packs of meat and repackage
into smaller portions to freeze. I look for sales on meat, frozen
vegetables and other items and stock up.
We have just one vehicle which is paid for. It is inconvenient at
times but when I think back to how it was when I was a child this
was the norm for many families. This also works for us since I don't
work outside the home. With our preschooler getting older we will be
getting a second vehicle eventually. However, for now we are happy
to go without a car payment.
We gave up the extra channels on television which brought our
cable bill down from $50 per month to just $12.00 per month. This
has been a sacrifice but we still get our basic channels to watch
our favorite prime time shows as well as PBS for our son.
Occasionally we rent a movie but for the most part we borrow movies
for free at the library. The selection at the library is usually
limited but you can usually find some great children's movies (and
lets face it, a four year old really doesn't care that "Toy Story"
was released a decade ago since it is new to him).
We opened an online savings account for emergencies. I believe it
is easier to save money when you're savings account is at a
different bank than your checking account. By keeping them separate
you are less tempted to dip into it (something we did often). We
chose Ing Direct because it offers a decent return. It only takes a
few minutes to set up and is tied to our checking account so it is
easy enough to move money but not so easy that you are tempted to
constantly dip into it. There are no fees or minimums and you have
the option of setting up direct deposit.
I will be honest, it is sometimes hard to find extra money to put
away but we do have a small amount direct deposited each week into
savings and now it has just become part of our weekly budget. Our
current account is for emergencies and we plan to start another one
soon to start saving for other things we will need down the road
(such as a down payment for a reliable but slightly used car
eventually). Saving (and earning interest) for unexpected expenses
sure beats having to borrow money or use credit cards!
These are just a few things we have done to cut expenses but they
have made a tremendous impact on our budget. Living on one income
can be done. Be creative, make a few sacrifices and you will be able
to hold on to more of your paycheck each week!
By Judy Turner If you are a stay at home mom looking for frugal
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